Living of a Life
4 Short Stories
Copyright 2017 K. J. Tesar
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To my dear friend
Thanks for the
and gentle nudge
4 Short Stories:
State of Being
Suffering of Life
Living of a Life
State of Being
There is nothing I love
more than staring out of my window, and watching the changing effects
of the seasons, on the beautiful garden below. Without a doubt, it is
one of the most precious pleasures life has gifted me. I have
positioned my work station right in front of a large window, here on
the second floor, and the view is nothing short of fantastic. Every
time I look out, I see something incredibly breathtaking. In the
foreground, there are pathways weaving through the well manicured
gardens, and across the back is a line of tall trees, ringing the
entire garden area. Behind those trees, putting them almost in a
picture frame, are Auckland's Waitakere Ranges. The overall picture
is one of sheer beauty. A beauty my eyes never tire from. On the one
hand, it could almost be called a distraction, to be constantly
looking up from my work, and watching the garden below. Really
though, it is the peace, and serenity, that the view gives me, that
enables me to work so well. I find that when I am relaxed, I do my
best work. The garden breathes life into me, and through me, into my
work. The choice to work from home was such a life changer. Since my
accident, I have made a lot of changes in my life. My new life barely
even resembles that of my old one. When we travel through our lives,
not aware of what the gift of life really means, it is so easy to get
sidetracked by feeling the need, the pressure, to have all the latest
gadgets, all the best clothes, and a home worthy of the best of
afternoon television. All our decisions are influenced by what others
think is best for us. The actual living of that life, gets lost
somewhere. In our constant chase for all the things we are led to
believe that we need, we forget about what would actually be good for
us. The things in life, quite often free, which are the things that
make life worth living. The essence of life itself. Far be it for me
to judge. I myself was one of the worst, at not recognising these
things. I was a go-getter from the start. I studied hard, and then,
when I entered the workforce, I worked hard, climbing up the
corporate ladder. I judged my progress by the amount of money I
earned, by the quality of the goods I owned, but never even
considered if any of it made me happy. I suppose it had been a result
of the competitive nature of the school, and university, I had
attended. At no time, in my learning years, did any teacher ever
broach the subject of living a life you enjoyed. It was all focused
on success. I suppose, in an abstract sort of way, it was just
assumed that, with success, happiness would follow. I, myself, never
even considered it. I was driven, along with my contemporaries, to
attain the maximum. We all studied hard, worked hard, and tried for
the best results possible. Sometimes I think back on those years, and
wonder if people actually liked me. Through it all, was I a nice
person? Were we even friends? Quite probably, I was so focused on
succeeding, that little details, like friendship, were put aside.
They were people to compete with, people to try and beat, by
attaining better results. How could that be the basis of friendship?
In my drive for results, things like friendship, and nature's beauty,
were never considered. Life had been all around me, but I hadn't
noticed it. I had been so distracted by the living of my life, that I
never really noticed life, itself. The beauty of life, the beauty of
people, were things that I had never dwelt on. I feel a sadness when
I think of that, of all those wasted years. Being constantly
encircled by the beauty of life, and the beauty of people, but
without even being aware of it's presence. Strangely, it took a bad
accident to open my eyes to what had always been there, but which, I
had never seen.
'It's such a lovely
place here, Kevin. It's so peaceful.'
My mother's face always lit
up when she looked over the garden below. Like me, now, she
appreciated it's great serenity.
'Thanks, mum, I like it too. I've
designed my work station around the fantastic view from the window.
To be honest, it can be a bit distracting, but actually, it gives me
the energy to get through all my projects.'
'I always look forward
to coming here to see you, so much.'
I looked at my mother's face.
For her age, approaching 60, she was still very beautiful, although
she had a strange look of sadness. Dad's death, years ago, had hit
her hard, and now with my accident on top of that, she seemed to have
become permanently sad. I really worried about her. She had life's
usual worry lines across her brow. No doubt they had increased
drastically through the period of my accident, and
'Mother, your visits always bring me a lot of
Really, mother's visits distracted me, a lot, from my
work. However, the new person that I had become, didn't place work
above all else. Now, finally, I valued life itself. People, the view
from my window, and the actual living of life, were the things that I
now valued, above all else. My mother was the most important person
in my new life, especially after all she had done for me after my
accident. I would never begrudge her any time she wanted.
wrenches out my heart, when I think of the accident you had. I was
sure I had lost you, forever.'
Mum looked to be on the verge of
crying, something she did a lot lately.
'Come on, mum, enough of
that. Don't think about that anymore. Here we are, in a lovely place,
together. What more could we ask for? Listen, if Mrs. Drummond is
still around, I will get her to make us a cup of tea. Hopefully there
will be some biscuits around, as well. What do you say?'
Drummond came in a few hours a day, to do my cleaning, and prepare my
meals for me. She was such a marvelous help, I don't know what I
would do without her. Luckily, she was still on hand, and made us a
cup of tea. I watched my mother as she drank her tea, and delicately
chewed on a biscuit. I was so incredibly lucky, to have her in my
life. The old me, the corporate, results driven me, had really taken
her for granted. We had never spoken about life, or gardens, things
of that nature. Sure, I had kept her up to date with all my results,
my promotions, and the money I was earning. I doubt that we had ever
had a real conversation, about life, the beauty of life, or how to
really live life, and appreciate the little things, like sitting
here, and having a cup of tea together.
'In some ways, I'm glad
your father wasn't still alive, when you had your accident. He just
doted on you. Of course, he also loved your sister, don't get me
wrong, but he really loved seeing how you excelled at everything. It
would have just destroyed him.'
The sadness just seemed
to consume her.
'Oh, come on, mum. You
can't keep dwelling on the accident. If anything, I am happier now.
Out of it all, I have discovered the true meaning of life. Instead of
just appreciating money, position, and things like that, I now
appreciate the little things in life. I feel that I am finally living
the life I was meant to live.'
Of course, I could understand her.
She had lived through what is probably the most traumatic event a
mother could ever experience. In fact, she, no doubt, had experienced
it more than me. Initially, I had been in a coma for a few days,
barely clinging to life. Obviously, that had left a deep scar on her,
and she had a difficult time forgetting it. I knew that I had to have
a lot of patience with her, and give her all the support that I
could. If anyone deserved that, it was mum. After all she had been
through, that was the least I could do.
I don't remember the
actual details of my accident, but, without a doubt, the wet,
slippery road, and the dark of night, had all contributed to it. I
don't remember anything until waking up in hospital, a few days
later. Apparently, I had been trapped in the car for hours, and had
to be cut free, with the so-called jaws of life. What followed for
me, was months of hospital, and rehabilitation. All the drama that
you could expect in a situation like that. My mother, my dearest
mother, the woman who I have really only come to know so well since
my accident, never left my side. Through all those months of
hospital, she was my rock. It was only through her dedication, and
constant love, that I managed to come through it all. Of that, I am
sure. Even when I was still too damaged to talk, she would tell me
all about what was going on, and what everyone was up to. When she
held my hand in hers, I felt so connected to love, to life. Her voice
was so soothing, and so peaceful. She always had a calming effect on
me, and I knew that with her help, I could get through anything. She
was my guardian angel, my pillar of strength. It was in those months,
with the example of my mother's love, that I decided that my life
needed to change, completely. I was never going back to living just
as an automaton, living a life dictated by society. I wanted to live
a real life. Listening to my mother describing simple things, such as
how the sky looked, on a particular day, or how well the flowers were
growing in her garden, woke up my urge to finally experience life
itself. It was time for me to start my life, anew.
'Here's your lunch,
now, Kevin. Come on, let's get you away from that window and get some
food into you.'
I smiled, in reply. She
was right, of course. Instead of working I had been gazing out of my
window. Mrs. Drummond is such a help. She really fusses over me, and
worries about whether I am eating enough. It is very sweet, really.
Most people, in the modern age, don't care about others. It was so
refreshing to have found someone with such old-school principles. She
cleared away a spot on my work table, and placed my lunch there. To
be honest, I hadn't really been able to get much work done that
morning. Autumn had arrived in Auckland, and the colours in the
garden below were just breathtaking. The new me, the person that I
had become, now appreciated the power, and the beauty, of nature. I
had spent most of the morning reflecting on the changes of the
seasons. It was nature's way of renewing life. Without those changes,
new growth couldn't come in the spring. It had occurred to me, that
that is also true of the changes people need to go through. If we
never change, we will never experience new things. If we are stuck in
our ways, either out of convenience, or, perhaps habit, we will never
experience different aspects of life. Our eyes will never be opened
to new perspectives, new ways of looking at the same things. If you
don't change the position you view things from, they will always
appear the same. Everybody understands what it means for the seasons
to change, but how many of us actually experience that change?
Knowledge seems to be all about memorising things, rather than seeing
them, or feeling them. We talk about things, without understanding
their impact. We don't grasp the power of the things we talk about,
because we don't actually live them. We tend to glide through life,
and we forget to take notice of the really important things, things
that don't enrich us economically, but which can enrich our souls.
The things in life that can make our lives better, because, by
experiencing them, we become better people.
Dr. McGuire looked up
and saw Kevin's mother standing in the doorway of his office.
'Hello, Mrs. Wilson,
what can I do for you?'
'Good morning doctor.
If you don't mind, I was wondering if we could have a chat about
'Certainly! Have a
seat, please. From a medical point of view, nothing has really
changed. I know our medical terminology can be difficult to
understand, but, in Kevin's situation, as a result of the head trauma
he suffered in his accident, we would say he is in a catatonic state,
with minimal brain activity. That would...'
'Yes, thank you, I
understand that. What I really wanted to know is, if he can hear me
when I speak to him. Can he understand me?'
'From a purely medical
point of view, that is extremely difficult to know. It differs from
one case to another, but we really have no way of evaluating just how
much a patient, in his condition, can comprehend. Listen, let me call
in nurse Drummond, she has the most contact with Kevin. I'm sure she
will be able to answer your questions, on a human level, better than
Dr. McGuire picked up
the phone, and spoke with his secretary. After a short wait, nurse
Drummond entered his office.
'Oh, hello there, Mrs.
Wilson. I saw you visiting Kevin earlier. I'm sorry I didn't have
time to get you a cup of tea today. It's been flat stick. Just one of
'Listen, Alice, Mrs.
Wilson has some questions about Kevin's ability to comprehend his
surroundings. Not from a medical point of view, but more from a
mother's point of view. Do you have some time to have a talk with
'Most certainly! Come
on, let's head down to the cafeteria. We can have a cup of tea, and a
bit of a chat.'
Mrs. Wilson followed
nurse Drummond to the hospital's cafeteria. The two of them, after
buying their teas, took a table by the window. The cafeteria was on
the first floor of the institution, overlooking the garden. Mrs.
Wilson looked at nurse Drummond anxiously.
'Do you think it helps,
when I talk to Kevin? Do you think he can understand me? Does he even
know it's me? Oh, sorry, I shouldn't bombard you with my questions.
Anyway, I'm sure you know what I mean.'
'Yes, of course. It's
more guesswork, than science, to know just how much patients, in
Kevin's state, can understand. The fact that he seems so much more
tranquil, when he is in front of his window, makes me believe that he
does have some awareness of his surroundings. Other patients don't
change at all, no matter where they are placed. However Kevin, when
he is seated in front of his window overlooking the garden, is
definitely much more relaxed. I believe, in myself, that he is aware,
to a certain extent, of things around him.'
Mrs. Wilson felt great
relief. She hated to think that Kevin was totally absent. Her
constant sadness abated slightly.
'What about when I talk
to him? Do you think he understands what I am saying?'
'Many studies have
shown that talking to patients in a catatonic state is helpful.
Moreover, in Kevin's state, being aware, as I am sure he is, of his
surroundings, I believe it would be very helpful for him. Just chat
away, tell him all the family news.'
'Do you think he knows
that I am his mother?'
Nurse Drummond took
Mrs. Wilson's hand in hers, and looked kindly, in her eyes.
'You just have to
believe, that that is the case. The only proof you will find of that,
is in your heart.'
Kevin's mother had
tears streaming down her cheeks. Tears of a sad elation. She half
wiped them away, and smiled at the nurse.
' I think he does! In
fact, I'm sure of it! Oh, thank you! Thank you so much. I'm so happy
to have Kevin here, where you look after him so well.'
'I'm sorry, Mrs.
Wilson, but I really must be getting on now.'
'Of course. Goodbye,
and thank you.'
As nurse Drummond left,
Mrs. Wilson looked out on the garden, Kevin's garden, and cried
quietly to herself. It was so hard seeing Kevin in that state. He had
been so full of life, so full of promise. He had achieved so much. To
have that all taken away from him was devastating. She finished her
tea, and headed out towards the carpark. She always took the long way
to the carpark, passing along one of the pathways through the garden.
As usual, she stopped to look up at Kevin's room. There he was,
sitting impassively, and immobile, at his window. Expectantly, she
waved up at him, but, as ever, he didn't move. Putting her
handkerchief to her eyes, to dry the last of her tears, she headed to
the carpark. She took a last look at the beautiful garden. This
peaceful place, that brought her such sadness. A place of great
beauty, that always wrenched out her heart.
Mother visited again
today. It's always such a great pleasure for me when she drops by.
Since my accident, we have really become so close. I am more than
happy to set aside my projects, and devote my time to her. My work
now, is no more than a means to an end. The old me was tied down, by
my mindset, to a lifestyle which can only be described as being
totally self indulgent. Now, I spend more time pondering life, and
people. It is really the people in our lives, that bring us the
happiness we desire, the joy our hearts yearn for. We will only find
fulfillment through our relationships with those closest to us.
Sometimes the most important things in our lives are right there, but
we don't see them. Now, after having made it through such a life
changing event, my eyes have been opened. I have finally understood
what life is really about. Life is about people. Life is about
appreciating nature's beauty. I am thankful for having had my
accident. I know that seems like a strange thing to say, but my real
life has only just begun, since my accident. It took the effects of
such a traumatic event, to wake me from my self-serving stupor. I now
feel like I am experiencing life, for the first time. Out of my
window I see my mother, the love of my life, walking along the
pathway, through the garden. With a surge of joy that passes through
me, I smile, and wave to her. She looks up, radiant and happy, and
waves back. I am so blessed in my life. I now have everything that I
could ever have asked for. Life has been incredibly generous to me.
I first time I set my
eyes on her I was completely blown away. My thoughts turned, quite
rapidly, to those of a sexual nature. Rather fortunately for me, that
never eventuated. Maybe I had better explain that. It was back in the
spring of two years ago. I had decided to get away for five days to
Kos, one of the Greek islands. Things had been going fairly badly for
me at work, back home in Christchurch, and I really needed to get
away. Take a break. I jumped a cheap flight from Bournemouth over to
Kos, and there I was, with beautiful sunshine, incredible beaches,
and tasty food. Everything I didn't have back home. It was just what
I needed. The only thing missing from that list was a lovely woman,
and that was where I thought she might fit in. On my first day there
I had discovered, by chance, what I thought to be the most beautiful
beach I had ever seen. I had been walking around, taking in the
sights, when I came across it. Just a kilometre or so out from the
centre of the Kos town centre, heading north. I never did find out if
that beach had a name, but for the rest of my stay, that was my home
base. Beautiful golden sand leading into the bluest, cleanest, water
that I had ever seen. The sun's reflections off the water gave it all
an almost surreal vision of grace. When you find a beach like that,
you look no further. Being on my own I was a bit penalised, in that I
had to rent two sunbeds, with an umbrella. In any case, the cost was
so ridiculously cheap, that I didn't mind. Each day I would try to
get there early, before the flood of Germans arrived, so I could get
a good spot on the sea front. The spring sunshine was so nice. The
view was absolutely stunning. Straight out in front, over the
shimmering water, you could see quite clearly, the Turkish mainland.
The water was crystal clear, and always calm. Surrounded, as it was,
by other Greek islands, and Turkey, the sea was never rough, even
when the wind came up. I would just float in the cool water for ages.
I forgot about my problems, back home, and concentrated on relaxing.
I let the stress flow from my body. When the heat got too much for
me, I would call over Dimitri, the guy running the place, and order a
nice cool drink from the bar. That was the life for me. It certainly
didn't hurt that many of the women there would sunbathe topless. That
just added to the pleasure. Right there, in my favourite spot in the
whole world, was where I met her, for the first time. My holiday was
coming to an end, it was my last full day. It was the day before
flying back home. Home, where I would have to return to the misery
that was my job. I tried not to think about that, and just enjoy my
last day at the beach. As usual, I had paid for a double spot. There
was no other way. All the spots came with two sunbeds, and an
umbrella in the middle, giving shade to both of them. Everywhere was
geared up for couples. When you are single you really get stitched
up, wherever you go. Hotels, beaches, everywhere. Everything comes
with a penalty payment for singles. It was society's way of letting
you know that they don't want you single. You must be coupled up,
preferably creating another generation, who would then get coupled
up, in their turn, and keep the cycle going. A society of single
people would soon lead to a gradual extinction of the human race. Who
would be there to keep the fires lit? Who would be there to ensure
that everything was in place for the next generation, if there was to
be no next generation? Being single was not only to be frowned upon.
It was to be penalised. You needed to get the message. Society
requires you to play your part, in perpetuating society. Find
someone, procreate, play the game. Do your share. If not, you will be
punished. Enjoy your single life, briefly, and then do that which
society expects of you. Your role is not to enjoy your life, but to
ensure that life itself continues. Society only functions with
continuous growth, one generation following the other, with an
endless stream of inconsequential people concentrated solely on
creating the next generation..... of inconsequential people. The
cycle must continue. Any deviation from your role in that cycle, and
you will be punished. Penalised.
'Hey, mate, sorry to
Roused from my musings,
I looked up, to see Dimitri. Something of a Greek God, was Dimitri.
Tall, very suntanned, with a beautiful face, and athletic body to go
with it. I'm sure there is a bronze statue dedicated to him
somewhere. He was standing over me, in all his glory.
'What's up, my friend?'
'Listen, you don't have
to, it's just that all the sunbeds are taken, and this person was
wondering if she could use your extra one.'
I turned to look behind
Dimitri, and there she was. My God, she looked so beautiful. She was
like a vision from another world. Tall, wearing a light semi see
through beach shawl over her bikini, and a straw hat. Her face was
stunning, caught in the Greek sunlight. This never happened to me.
This was the stuff of films. Or dreams. Trying to sound casual, I
replied to Dimitri. As usual, I made a right mess of it, in my state
'Sure, my friend, no
worries. She is welcome to the other sunbed. Hey, one is enough for
me, what would I do with two anyway? It's not as if....'
As if sensing my
flustered state, the beautiful woman intervened.
'I will pay you half
the cost,' she said.
'Sure, that's alright,
She put down her bag,
and slowly took off her shawl, revealing her bikini clad body. At the
sight of her sensual body, a surge of excitement went through me. I
could feel things stirring down below. Things could get embarrassing,
very fast. I knew I had to get control.
'I'm going in for a
swim. Make yourself at home.'
I took off my
sunglasses and rushed into the water. The cool water did the trick,
and I managed to get things under control. Hopefully she, or no one
else, had noticed the bulge growing in my swimming trunks. Thank God
I never wore speedos! Looking back at the beach, I couldn't believe
what had just happened. Normally it was hard work for me to meet
women. Now, one had been presented to me on a plate. Without having
to do anything, a beautiful woman was now lying on a sunbed next to
mine. In that situation, conversation was unavoidable. She was mine.
I knew I would have to play it cool. I would be very casual, not
really standoffish, but definitely cool. I needed to be on top form.
I walked out of the water, feeling good. I had just turned 35 years
old, and my body was in good shape. After these days on the beach I
had a good tan, I was cooking. I could do this.
'Hey, the water is
fantastic. A bit cool, but with this scorching sun, it's really
'I don't really swim
much, but I probably will go in later.'
'I'm Nick, by the way.'
'Hello Nick, my name is
Lianne. I just got in from Bournemouth yesterday. What about you,
where are you from?'
'Hey, guess what? I
flew in from there, too. I live in Christchurch.'
'Really? Actually I
live in Poole, out the other side of Bournemouth from you. How long
are you here for?'
'Unfortunately, I am
off back home tomorrow. Just been here for five days, all up. How
long are you here for?'
I couldn't help being a
bit dismayed at the bad timing, although back home, we were only
living about 20 kilometres from each other. If things worked out
well, we would be able to continue it all back there. I realised that
nothing would be happening in Kos, the timing just wasn't right, but
I could definitely set something up for the future. I had something
to work towards. I had a project. She lay back and started reading a
book. I wouldn't interrupt her. I was playing it cool. I took my book
out of my bag, and pretended to read it. Really, I was sneaking
glances at her, as she lay there. Lianne had a nice body, not really
brilliant, but incredibly sensual. Some of the other women around me
looked better. Plus, some of them were topless. On the other hand,
Lianne was here with me, the others weren't. I would work with what I
had. I thought back on my excitement, at first seeing her. Why is it
that in a flash I had gotten so excited? What had I been expecting to
happen? It's not as if we were going to make love there and then.
Where does this instant, unstoppable desire come from? Maybe it's not
just society that wants us all to be coupled up, and permanently
procreating. Quite probably, it is built right into our genetic make
up. Survival of the species is dependent on us getting together,
having sex, and creating another generation. Over the centuries it
must have become built into our DNA. Seemingly it is something we
have very little control over. We are going about our day to day
business, thinking of nothing but the task in hand, when, out of the
blue, with no more prompting than that of seeing a sexy woman, we can
think of nothing but sex. There was definitely something primitive
about the whole process. Something very basic. However, stealing
glances at Lianne, I still did want to have sex with her, no matter
whether that was just my DNA talking, or some primeval instinct
rooted deep in me. It just wasn't going to be as immediate as my body
had first imagined. I could still feel stirrings down there, the
controlling instinct definitely hadn't forgotten his objective. Now
it was up to me to control those primeval urges, letting them loose
only at the appropriate time.
'Lianne, do you want to
go out for dinner, this evening?' I blurted out.
Damn! So much for
playing it cool. A wave of panic came over me, as I realised that I
had really played a big card. A refusal here, and it was game over.
There would be no meeting up, or having sex, back home. Why had I
said that? Roused from her book, she looked over, at me.
'That sounds lovely. I
must say, it seems like there are a lot of places to choose from.'
A feeling of relief
flowed through me. I had really risked the lot there. Why was I so
inept at these things? She was sitting right there, there was no
hurry. I had plenty of time to work up to the big question. Anyway,
with a lot of luck, it had gone well.
'That's for sure. The
town is full of them, and from what I have seen so far, they are all
pretty nice. I love Greek food. What about you?'
'Actually, I haven't
eaten it much. Maybe you can advise on what to get?'
'Hey, sure. I'm your
man. To be honest, it's pretty hard to go wrong. It's all pretty
good. Where is your hotel?'
'Just two streets back
from here. This was the first beach I came to.'
'Wow, you really picked
a good hotel. I think this is the best beach on Kos. I have to walk
for about 15 minutes to get here. Not that I mind, I always do plenty
of exercise, so I just consider it part of my workout.'
She looked so sexy,
laying back with her sunglasses on, and her straw hat. As I stole
glances at her, I could definitely feel that my body hadn't lost
interest in her. My primordial instincts were still ensuring that the
game would continue. Part of me felt like a puppet, controlled by
other hands. It struck me just how basic our primal instincts really
were. Shelter, food, and procreation. A hotel room, a good meal out
in the centre of Kos, and going to bed with Lianne. Life in a
nutshell. Still, I had to admit, it all sounded pretty good to me.
Obviously those are the instincts that have been driving us for
thousands of years, but, all things considered, it didn't really seem
that bad. Maybe mankind's instincts were well founded? We dressed it
all up a lot, especially in our affluent age, but at the end of the
day, that has been what we have been doing since the time we lived in
caves. We were really just cavemen with cellphones. Our caves had
become houses, our hunting was now done in the supermarket, and our
procreation was decided over dinner, with a nice glass of wine. With
all our progress, and new technology, we were still driven in the
same way our forebears had been. We were still guided by the exact
same instincts. But, on the other hand, why not? They seemed to be
working. Eventually, the afternoon came to a end. People were
starting to pack up, and leave the beach. It was time to head back to
'Bye, Lianne. I'll see
you at 8 o'clock, then.'
'Ok, I'll see you on
We had both packed up
our things, and we then headed off to our hotels. We had arranged to
meet in the centre, on the quay, to go out for dinner. On my walk
home I couldn't stop smiling. What a score! I had just been lying
there, when Lianne was brought to me. There had been no hard pick up
lines, no weird internet dating sites, in fact, no work at all on my
part. This was going to work well. Back at my hotel I got myself
cleaned up, and put on the best clothes I had brought with me. I
wanted to look good. Would this be our first date, or our second? It
didn't really matter anyway, no action would be happening here, in
Kos. That would have to wait for when we were both back home. I
headed into town early, and found a bench down on the main quay,
where the tourist charter boats were. The boats had all returned from
the day's trips, and the harbour looked spectacular. The centre of
the town opened out onto this sheltered harbour, really presenting a
beautiful sight, with all the boats at their moorings. The evening
sun reflected off the water, creating the most beautiful
mediterranean postcard sight. The centre was full of tourists, coming
and going. Everyone seemed to be happily enjoying themselves. Easily
done, in such a beautiful place. In the surrounding streets, which
were very narrow, and mostly closed to traffic, there were dozens of
restaurants, and bars. It was all very Greek looking, and just such a
pretty picture. To make it look even better, there she was, walking
down the quay towards me, and waving. What a beautiful sight!
'Hi there, Nick! You
look nice, all cleaned up.'
'Thanks, Lianne. You
She was wearing a white
dress, very light and delicate, swishing around as she walked. Her
shoulders, and legs, were uncovered, showing off her smooth skin.
'Thank you, that's very
nice of you.'
'Let's wander up here.
There are plenty of places to choose from.'
I put my hand on her
arm, and guided her across the street. At the touch of her skin, I
felt a wave of excitement flow through me. I would have loved to kiss
her, there and then. However, I knew I had to slow things down. I
didn't want to ruin things by moving too fast. That was a bit of a
bad habit of mine, throwing myself in at the deep end, only to find I
had misread the situation, or maybe ruining things by pushing things
along too quickly. This time I was going to be Mr. Cool. The patient
'Oh Nick, this place
looks lovely, what do you think?'
'Yeah, it sure does.
Let's do it!'
The place was a Greek
Taverna, one of the many, decked out in traditional colours, with a
lot of beachy paraphernalia hanging on the walls. The wooden tables
and chairs spilled right out onto the street, where they were covered
by a light wooden structure, from which hung small Greek flags. It
did look nice. From my limited experience on the island, anywhere
would have been fine. The food was brilliant everywhere. The locals
were also incredibly friendly. We found a table, and sat down.
'What do you recommend,
Mr. Kos expert?'
Let's order one of everything on the menu. That way we won't miss out
Lianne laughed, and
gave me an incredibly cute smile. Her lips were perfectly shaped, and
'It's a shame you are
leaving tomorrow. You could have been my guide here. It's all so easy
with someone who knows their way around.'
'Yes, it is. It really
is a shame. Hey, why don't we meet up, back in Bournemouth? I know
it's not the same, but I know a few good places back there as well.'
'That would be lovely.
I would like that.'
I tried to look cool,
as a wave of delight passed through me, lingering in my loins. I felt
like jumping up and yelling:
However, I remained
composed, and just gave her a little smile.
'The food will
definitely not be as good, though. Let's eat!'
We ordered various
plates of Greek delights, and had a wonderful meal. Her shoulder
length, brown hair, really set off her face well. Her green eyes
sparkled as she talked, and smiled. She looked so pretty, sitting
there in that Greek Taverna. Certain moments in life are really
special. A photo never gives them the credit they deserve. Maybe it
was also because of the fact that my work life, back home, was in a
total state of shambles. Maybe it was just the effect of being in
Kos. Whatever the reason, that dinner with Lianne, in that Taverna,
was just such a special evening. The memory of it will linger with me
forever. Sitting there with her, I had the feeling that anything was
possible. Happiness could invade my soul. I could return to
Christchurch, confront all my problems at work, and break out of the
unhappy situation that had been dogging me. With a good woman, like
Lianne, at my side, everything was possible. We chatted until late.
The time had just flown by. Eventually, we knew we would have to call
it a night, even though neither of us wanted to. We walked back down
to the quay, to say goodnight. My mind was racing. How would I play
this. I knew a kiss was called for, but how big a kiss? I didn't want
to overplay my hand, but on the other hand, I wanted to show how much
I liked her. In the end, it was Lianne who took control. She leaned
in, and kissed me, lightly, on my cheek.
'Bye Nick, see you back
'See you, Lianne. It
has been so nice to meet you.'
She wandered off, with
me staring after her. My Greek break had really come up trumps. I was
refreshed, relaxed, and had found Lianne. I was ready to go home. I
could face whatever life threw at me.
Back in Christchurch,
the days passed incredibly slowly. I couldn't wait to see Lianne
again. Since I had been back, it had rained every day. It was so
bleak, and miserable. And cold, really cold. My problems at work just
seemed to be the same as before my holiday. Then I wondered if maybe
I should just quit, and start all over again, in another office.
Probably, there was no fixing the bad relationship I had with my
colleagues. All things considered, it was probably for the best to
just start again. Why not? At the end of the day, it probably
wouldn't even be that hard to find another job. Maybe even with
better pay? Actually, just the fact of coming to that conclusion
really helped my feel better. In the end it hadn't even been that
difficult. The problem was easily fixed. Was this the Kos effect? Or
was it the Lianne effect? In any case, my holiday in Kos had brought
me good counsel. It had given me time to reflect on what I should do
to fix my dismal situation. Having accepted the idea of quitting, and
starting a new job, I felt free of all the disquiet that I had been
holding onto. Now, this was the Lianne effect, of that I was sure. It
was funny how office politics worked. People pairing off, to attack a
third person, or grouping together, to ravage the others. Even though
we were all dressed well, and working in a modern environment, the
behaviour we followed was really quite basic. The dominant ones
feeling they owned the place, and had the right to denegrate others.
For no other reason, seemingly, than the fact that they could.
Probably that attitude would have made sense when we were all
fighting each other, for a limited supply of food, and shelter. In a
primitive setting, it would have been a necessary instinct for
survival. When, however, you worked in an office, shuffling bits of
paper, what was the need of this primevil beating of the chest? Did
man still need to show how strong he was, even when he was wearing a
white shirt, and a blue tie? What sense did it make? What was the
gain in it all? Man's progression just seemed to be one of having an
easier life, with all modern comforts, but, deep down in our souls,
we were still just primitive beings, acting in the way of our
ancestors. Modern society had been thrust upon primordial man. The
hunter and collector now worked in an office. Instead of hunting prey
to eat, necessary for survival, the hunting was now of a malicious,
sadistic, kind. The prey was those presumed to be weaker, or not part
of the dominant group. To a certain extent, the noble instinct of
hunting for survival had been debased. It had been turned into an
unnecessary bloodlust, for no other reason than that of showing the
dominance of the strongest, at the expense of the weakest. I would no
longer play their game. I would no longer be primordial man's victim.
As soon as I could, I would find another job, hopefully with nicer
people. Just arriving at this conclusion brought me a sense of
relief. Knowing that I would be leaving, that I would no longer be
the brunt of primitive man's bullying, made we feel like my old self
again. A holiday in Kos, and meeting Lianne, had helped me reflect
clearly on my work situation. It felt like I was getting my life back
on track. I was letting go of the grip of unhappiness, and planning
my future. At the end of the day, it had really been me who had
allowed primitive man to dominate me, by my acquiescence. Without my
submission, primitive man really had no dominance. He could only play
his part, if I, too, played mine. The thought of that brought me some
relief. If I wasn't exactly happy yet, I was on the verge of
happiness. Happiness was now a possibility. Now I was ready to move
ahead with my life, and my plans involving Lianne. I could see a
pleasant future coming to bloom. Finally the long week passed, and
Lianne returned home to Poole. I had been practising my phone call to
her for a few days. I wanted to get the right combination of letting
her know how interested I was in her, but without going overboard, as
I often did. I needed to retain a certain amount of detachment. We
arranged to meet, on the banks of the river Avon, just down from
Christchurch Castle. My idea was to have a pleasant walk along the
river, and then pop into a restaurant, maybe a Greek one. All along
very romantic lines, I thought. I was sure she would fall at my feet,
after such an enjoyable evening. Saturday evening rolled around. I
was looking forward to seeing her again. It didn't really matter that
it was raining, although it certainly put the dampers on my 'walk
along the banks of the river Avon' plans. Instead, after sending a
couple of messages backwards and forwards, we arranged to meet in a
pub, The Kings Arms. It all put me in a bit of a fuddle, to be
honest. I had planned the outdoors meeting, to facilitate the
greeting kiss. On the river bank, two lovers meeting, and exchanging
a kiss, seemed like a smooth way to work in the kiss. It was the
right thing to do, in that romantic setting. In the noisy interior of
an inner city pub, on open display to all and sundry, such a show of
affection might be out of place, and put one or the other in a bit of
an embarrassed state. Possibly even both of us. Walking to the pub,
under my umbrella, it all seemed to be slipping away, somewhat. Under
the Kos sun, it had all gone so agreeably. In the heat, wearing light
clothes, and being in the holiday mood, everything seemed to flow
better. Conversation had come easily, desire had been ever present,
and the pathway to the bedroom had seemed to be lit by invisible
candles. Now, here, heavily bundled up against the cold and rain,
meeting in the incredibly unromantic environs of an English pub, that
pathway seemed to be lined with thorn bushes. Still unsure about how
I would handle the opening greeting; kiss, or no kiss, I entered the
pub. Lianne was already there. Or, at least, it looked like her.
Without her skimpy white dress, she looked different. At first
glance, sitting there in a heavy set of clothes, she somehow didn't
look anywhere near as attractive as she had, in the semi nudity of
Kos. Luckily, she was at a wide table, so the kiss dilemma was pretty
much off the menu. It would be too far to reach over the table for a
kiss. At least that problem was solved.
'Hi there, Lianne! How
are you? You look pretty tanned.'
'Hello, Nick. Good
thanks, how are you?'
My God! She looked so
miserable. I sat down, and looked carefully at her face. She really
wasn't a great beauty at all. Had I ever really looked at her face
before? Or had I been so aware of her body, that I hadn't really
noticed her face? Now that her body was heavily covered, against the
cold English weather, I felt like I was seeing Lianne for the first
time. Without the constant feeling of desire, dictated by my body, I
was now judging her with the thoughtfulness of my mind. How could
someone seem so different, in two different settings? Did we evaluate
people based on where we met them, and then re-evaluate them in
another situation? Was it purely that my sexual desire had taken
control in Kos, and I had seen Lianne solely based on how good her
body was? Now that I didn't have her almost naked body to contend
with, I viewed her from a different perspective. I'm afraid to admit
that she came up a bit lacking, in that regard. Her face was quite
ordinary, and, coupled with her unhappy expression, she didn't look
terribly attractive at all.
'I'll get some drinks
in. What would you like, Lianne?'
'Gin and tonic,
I fought my way to the
crowded bar, and got some drinks in, just a beer for me. Then we got
down to chatting. I really couldn't believe it was the same person
that I had met in Kos. Maybe if I were to see her naked, the former
flame of attraction would burn again. With no urgent desirous
messages emanating from the lower parts of my body, it was just up to
my mind to evaluate her. In all honesty, the opinion my mind was
formulating was not very complimentary to Lianne, at all. She was
prattling on about when she was a kid, but I could hardly
concentrate, being so immersed, as I was, in my comparisons of the
two Liannes. The before, and the after.
'Why? What happened?' I
asked, trying to focus on what she was talking about.
'My stupid mother. She
was so unfair to me, when I was young. It was always my sister that
got all the attention.'
'When you were a kid?'
What the hell was she
on about? When she was a kid?
'Yes, Stacey always got
the best gifts, and all mums attention.'
'Is she younger than
'Yes, five years.'
that's pretty normal. It happened to me, too, growing up. The
youngest in the family is just about always spoilt. I have a sister,
six years younger than me, and she was always daddy's little girl.
His little princess. He never did anything with me, or my brothers,
but he always had time for her. That's just the way it goes. It's
always like that with the youngest child.'
Who was this person?
Where had Lianne, my Lianne, disappeared to?
'I remember a time when
I was ten years old, mum gave a necklace to Stacey, but she didn't
give me anything. It just wasn't fair. She was always the special
Her eyes were burning
with rage. Just recollecting this memory brought back floods of anger
to her. Her face was contorted with anger towards her mother, and,
probably, jealousy towards her sister. A necklace? I doubted that it
had been part of the crown jewels. No doubt it was really just some
cheap trinket, of no more value than a couple of pounds, at the most.
Who was this person? How could anyone hold onto such anger, over such
a trivial thing, for so long?
'It hadn't even been
her birthday, or anything. Just out of the blue mum gave her that
necklace. She is still mum's favourite, even now. Everything she does
is just so perfect.'
'How is Stacey going
'She's married, and
just had her second child, a little girl.'
It was all starting to
make sense. Obviously, their mother would be doting on her sister's
children, like any good grandmother. When they were kids, Stacey had
had more attention, because she was the youngest, and again now,
because she has given her mother two grandchildren. It didn't really
seem like a big deal to me. The fact that the younger sister had
achieved so much, whilst Lianne was still single, I could maybe
understand a bit of jealousy towards her sister. A bit of envy over
her sister, now having a full family was understandable, but holding
onto anger from some slight from when she was ten years old? This
person was crazy. I just couldn't get over the intensity in her eyes,
as she recounted the story about the necklace. Her eyes had been
burning with anger. To feel such intense rage over something that had
happened over twenty years ago, bloody hell, that was holding onto
anger! At that moment I realised that I would never be giving in to
my body's desire towards Lianne. She was just so flaky, that I didn't
want to get embroiled in any of her rubbish. I was in the process of
sorting out my problems at work, and I really didn't want to get
enmeshed in a relationship with someone this screwed up. I needed to
have a period of tranquility in my life, and that wouldn't happen if
I got involved with Lianne, no matter how much my body was attracted
to hers. Primordial man, with his basic urges, and desires, would
have to give way to modern, evolved man, and his good common sense. I
felt something akin to a wave of satisfaction go through me. It felt
good to be so sensible. Maybe I had evolved? It crossed my mind how
fortunate I had been to have met her, in Kos, on my last day there.
If we had been on that island together any longer, there was no doubt
in my mind that we would already be in a relationship. Obviously
these things can be ended, but I was never any good at even starting
relationships, let alone ending them. All I had to do now was draw
back, and end things, before they started. I had to get out of there,
and get Lianne out of my life. This was not going to work for me.